1. Be happy: A great deal of
motivation comes from understanding one's state of happiness. However,
happiness, like most other oh-so-important concepts in life, is a slippery
concept. How would one go about changing how happy they are? Very simply put,
happiness and control are causal, meaning that when you take away somebody's
control, they are less happy. Logic would thus indicate that by giving yourself
some control, you are generally happier, and more motivated to do something.
It's the reason there are control freaks in the world, and it's the reason
video games have become so popular. Some control-based activities are:
- Video
Games
- Hiking
(primarily alone)
- Playing
chess
- Reading
- Writing
2. Be more energetic: Many people underestimate the importance of their own energy
level, and unfortunately, they only remember after they pull that all-nighter.
It isn't a lack of motivation, per se, but more a lack of
perceived energy. There are several factors that affect one's level of energy:
- Diet:
Understand that your body has needs too, and if you ignore those needs
your body will tell you. In short, understand what your body is telling
you.
- When
you have a headache, before you grab those pills in your medicine cabinet,
try putting some water into your system. Drink a glass or two, wait for
fifteen minutes, and see if the headache is gone.
- A
good lesson to learn is that caffeine doesn't actually help you gain
energy, it just lessens the effect of being tired. Consider replacing your
caffeine with vitamins B6 and B12. Vitamin B is healthier, more
convenient, and cheaper.
- If
you need energy, seek it out, because it will be extremely hard to stay motivated
without it.
- Sleep
is nature's downtime. Make sure that you get enough of it, and a high
enough quality of it.
- Make
sure your bedroom is completely dark at night.
- Make
sure there are no sounds keeping you awake.
- Make
sure that your bedroom is cold at night, ideally 65 degrees (18 Celsius).
- Attempt
to get not eight, but nine hours of sleep every night.
3. Be efficient: Efficiency is extremely important. Without efficiency a
person will have zero motivation to do anything. Efficiency is the confidence
one has in their own personal abilities. Without that confidence one can easily
give into immobility. Ways to facilitate efficiency are discussed below.
- Skill:
Are you good at something? Then don't be afraid to do it. Are you average
at something? Then remember that practice makes perfect. Barring some sort
of strange neurological condition, the good guy's talent is always
reachable by working at it. Remember the story of Abraham Lincoln, and how
he was born in a log cabin and made his way to the White House.
- Compete:
So much of efficiency is drawn from reference, for a high self-value one
must draw it from a reference point or another person. In other words,
take that good guy as a friendly rival! Competition is a powerful muse, my
friend.
- Train:
Find time to train and discover new skills that you have. For example,
learning to use both hands or how to properly type on a keyboard are both
reachable talents, and both are well worth the time spent.
4. Get the support you need: Your support are the foundations for your personality and
your values. Support can be broken down into two areas, internal and external:
- Internal:
Your internal supports are the small realizations that nourish your
potential. Good realizations don't always have to be true, and true
realizations don't always have to be good. For example, thinking that
since time is so short that something is not worth doing is a
true-but-unhelpful internal support. So much of motivation comes not from
acknowledging what is true, but believing in what's worth believing in.
Other good internal supports are listed below:
- Sublimation
is everything, Turn all your flaws around into something productive and
admirable. Aggression into ambition, Arrogance into efficiency,
immobility into patience.
- Decisions
are everything, Make sure you appreciate and give a great deal of
attention to your decisions, it's the only real control you have.
- External
Supports: External supports are people, places or things that nourish your
potential. External supports vary but it's always important to have them.
Good supports will be listed below:
- Good
Friends: Keep yourself in good company. Remember the "Ladder
Scenario": If you are climbing a ladder, and your friend keeps
knocking you down when you finally start getting to the top, do yourself
a favor next time: keep your footing on the ladder, and when he goes to
kick you down, grab his leg and throw him down, and with that, out of
your life.
- Good
Family: Unfortunately, you can't really choose your family, barring
desperate measures. But if they are the people at the top of the ladder,
perhaps it is better to find another ladder to climb, be it one tried and
true, or one new and unprecedented.
5. Feel fulfilled: Fulfillment is a very crucial part of staying motivated. Knowing
that you are doing the things you wish to do can push you forward more than any
other variable.
- Take
time to sit back and admire what you've done. Seeing how far you've come
gives you a sense of purpose.
- Don't
be embarrassed to take credit in what you've done. You know you've worked
hard, and getting praise from other people can strengthen your resolve in
pushing on.
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